SIGNS THAT YOU ARE DATING THE WRONG GUY

Are guys unkind to you or unreliable or make promises they can't keep or won't commit?

Do the guys you date make you

feel bad about yourself?

If so...

Do you date a guy like this and hope he may change? Do you make excuses for him?

Here are my top 30 signs YOU are dating the wrong guy.

1. He believes you are his possession, rather than his partner 2. He never takes responsibility for himself, he always twists things and lays the blame on you 3. He is emotionally unavailable 4. He drinks too much or takes drugs 5. He is still attached to his ex 6. He has mood swings 7. You often have to tip toe around on eggshells with him 8. He is controlling 9. He doesn't shower you with positive attention 10. You are never certain where you stand with him 11. You are into his 'potential' rather than facing the reality 12. Everything is on his terms 13. He speaks down to you or/and make disrespectful remarks 14. He constantly needs to get the last word in and needs to be right 15. His is either a workaholic or has no drive, no goals, no aspirations 16. You always feel like you have to prove yourself to him 17. He doesn't make you feel valued 18. He makes constant derogatory remarks about your friends and family 19. You are not that into him but don't like being alone 20. He always leaves soon after sex or rolls over and faces the other way 21. He likes the sound of his own voice more than he likes the sound of yours. 22. He objectifies you. 23. He undermines your goals, dreams and visions 24. He plays games and always manipulates you to get what he wants 25. He doesn't show up when he says he will 26. He doesn't make you feel cherished 27. He talks over you and interrupts you 28. You spend time and energy trying to fix him 29. He is devoid of empathy 30. He is a walking contradiction

If these signs sound familiar - you need to re think who you date. Build up a relationship with yourself before you start building a relationship with someone else. Get clear on your 'ideal man' and your values. Remember when we settle for less, we ALWAYS get less than we settle for. Do not waste precious time with guys who are 'GFN' (good for now). Instead value yourself more, and if it is not an absolute yes, rule of thumb is it's generally a 'no. After all we cannot expect to find Mr Right when we keep dating Mr Right Now.

SO IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE DATING 'THE WRONG GUY'... RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN...